Twelve Everyday Etiquette Tips That Make a Lasting Impression

Good manners are not an old custom reserved for formal occasions. They shape how people see you, how far they trust you and how strong your relationships become. The good news is that most of etiquette comes down to small, repeatable habits.

Here are twelve practical reminders drawn from our classes at Posh School of Etiquette.

1. Be on time. Punctuality is one of the simplest ways to show respect for other people's time.
2. Greet first. A warm greeting, a smile and eye contact set the tone for every interaction.
3. Introduce with care. When introducing two people, say each name clearly and add a detail that helps them begin a conversation.
4. Use the magic words. Please, thank you and excuse me never go out of style.
5. Put your phone away. Keep your phone off the table and out of sight during meals and meetings.
6. Listen fully. Allow others to finish speaking before you respond.
7. Dress for the occasion. When in doubt, dress slightly more formally than you expect others to.
8. Work from the outside in. At a formal table, use the cutlery placed furthest from your plate first and work inwards with each course.
9. Mind your tone online. Read every message again before you send it. Written words carry no tone of voice.
10. Honour your elders. In many Nigerian settings, greeting elders first and with due respect is expected.
11. Say thank you in writing. A short note after an event, gift or interview is always remembered.
12. Respect personal space. Give people room, in conversation and in queues.

Make the habits stick

Etiquette is learnt by doing. In every Posh School of Etiquette class, participants practise through demonstrations, role play and guided practice, so these habits carry naturally into everyday life – at home, at school, at work and in public.

If you would like to build these skills for yourself, your child or your team, explore our Social Etiquette course or book a consultation.